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    The Wench Talks: What I’ve Been Up To

    “So how have you been?” This is probably one of the most asked questions since I’ve come back to the community, and I’ve decided to just write a nice post about what I did, what I’ve been up to, and how I’m doing since y’all last saw me. Back in March of last year, it was decided that I really needed to step back from the community. A lot of things were going on in my personal life- not having medicine, being in and out of the psychiatric hospital, etc, and a lot of what was going on online was exacerbating just how shitty things were going. So I stepped…

  • Mental Health,  Not a Review

    Not always a safe high: Masturbation & My Mental Illness

    Did you know that an orgasm is the biggest non-drug blast of dopamine available? According to Gloria Brame, Ph.D., a brain scan of someone having an orgasm looks like a heroin addict’s- it’s a natural and safe high.     But that’s what I want to touch on today. That word. “Safe.” Because, in certain cases, masturbation isn’t always safe. I don’t mean you can get hairy palms, go blind, or lose your sex. I mean that a person can masturbate too much, to a point where it becomes unsafe for them and can rock them mentally. This is a problem I deal with personally — the negative impact frequent masturbation can have on one’s psyche. I…