• Monthly Playlists

    What’s Playing Wendy?

    Music has been divine lately! I’ve posted so many “Song Of The Day!” this month over on my Twitter. I thought I’d bring some of the sexy music over on this way and let y’all see them track by track, and enjoy a full playlist. We’re gonna kick this playlist off with a few of my favorites! Gooey Glass Animals // Sex With Me Rihanna // Change Deftones Teardrop Massive Attack // Gangsta Kehlani // Pony Far The Valley Miguel //  Glory Box Portishead // Love Galore SZA Often The Weeknd // Practice Drake // Crazy In Love Fifty Shades of Grey Friends The Carters // She Will Lil Wayne // Fucking & Kissing A Boogie You can listen to the full playlist here! I like to think I added a little something from an array of genres, however, this playlist…

  • Discourse,  Kink,  Not a Review

    No Means No: Respecting Boundaries, People, & More

    I never thought I’d be on the offending end of not respecting another’s boundaries. Respecting a person’s “No.” seemed to be one of those things that were common sense- something you just did. Period. It was black and white, no gray area. “No” leaves no room for debate, thought, or anything like that. It’s straightforward. You get the idea. I’ve always been an advocate of No Means No. I will always be an advocate for it. There’s no other option in my eyes. No means fucking no. I feel like anyone with common decency would be an advocate of respecting someone’s wishes- especially when it comes to saying “No. You…

  • Reviews

    The Wench Reviews: Avant D4 & Exposed Nocturnal

    My cervix is low, and my vagina is narrow. That makes taking good-sized toys a bit hard- or involves a lot of preparation. When I got the Avant D4 in the mail from Blush Novelties, I knew I wanted to try it out and feel it at its fullest potential. I didn’t want to take four inches of it. No, no. I wanted to take all 7 inches. I wanted to feel its full girth which hailed to be 1.75in. I needed it all in me. The preparation that it took for me to get all of the Avant D4 was a lot of building up with smaller toys, lots…

  • Recently Enjoyed Things

    Recently Enjoyed Things

    I decided a while ago that I wanted to be a sex toy review blogger, along with a sexual health blogger. However as of late I’ve found myself unfulfilled with posting content strictly relating to those things, especially when I like to talk often on here about mental health, so a few days ago I thought about doing a bi-weekly, or maybe even monthly series of “recently enjoyed things”, it might be accompanied by pictures, it might not, but I’m very glad I’ve decided to start it. I think it’s really important for one to focus on the good in life, especially when they feel like there’s a lot of…

  • Reviews

    The Wench Reviews: PalmPower Wand

      When I first saw the PalmPower I thought to myself “This small wand won’t do a damn thing for me. Smh.” But boy, let me tell you something… I was wrong. Rarely am I wrong when eyeballing a toy. Usually, I’m spot on- I know my cunt, y’all. I know it well. But this time? I was schooled by a toy. This compact little fucker is better than my Magic Wand if we’re comparing things. It’s smaller, a lot less noisy, has more than two settings, and knows how to please me. With it’s deep, rumbling, and intense vibrations I find myself reaching for it over any toy in…

  • Uncategorized

    Sex Down South Sponsor Call!

    Sex Down South is hosted in ATL this year, and goodness gracious does this girl wanna go! My name’s Wendy Phillips and I’m a PoC Sex Blogger. But I don’t stop my blogging only at sex blogging, I also blog about Mental Health Education, and problems in the PoC community. I was inspired to start my blog in early 2018, and I hope to have a long, educational, fun, and feel good journey with it! The good lord knows that I’m not rolling in dough though, so I’m asking for YOUR help! I am calling for sponsors to help me cover the expenses of the trip for Sex Down South! These expenses include room and board, food,…