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    Sex Down South Sponsor Call!

    Sex Down South is hosted in ATL this year, and goodness gracious does this girl wanna go! My name’s Wendy Phillips and I’m a PoC Sex Blogger. But I don’t stop my blogging only at sex blogging, I also blog about Mental Health Education, and problems in the PoC community. I was inspired to start my blog in early 2018, and I hope to have a long, educational, fun, and feel good journey with it! The good lord knows that I’m not rolling in dough though, so I’m asking for YOUR help! I am calling for sponsors to help me cover the expenses of the trip for Sex Down South! These expenses include room and board, food,…

  • Blog,  Not a Review,  The Wench Talks

    The Wench Talks: What I’ve Been Up To

    “So how have you been?” This is probably one of the most asked questions since I’ve come back to the community, and I’ve decided to just write a nice post about what I did, what I’ve been up to, and how I’m doing since y’all last saw me. Back in March of last year, it was decided that I really needed to step back from the community. A lot of things were going on in my personal life- not having medicine, being in and out of the psychiatric hospital, etc, and a lot of what was going on online was exacerbating just how shitty things were going. So I stepped…

  • Reviews

    The Wench Reviews: Womanizer Starlet

        There are a few things about the Womanizer Starlet that can be said. 1) Its name is totally terrible. 2) Its logo looks a bit like the Walgreens logo. 3) I’m unconditionally, and irrevocably, head over heels in love with it. When I was first offered toys to review from Betty’s Toy Box, I was excited. I was a new blogger, it was my first time working with a company to review a toy, and the world felt like my oyster or something. Picking out a toy was difficult until my eyes zeroed in on “Womanizer: Starlet” and at the time the blogosphere had been abuzz with hype…

  • Not a Review,  Sexual Health

    The Wench Talks: The Importance of Open Dialogue

    So I sat there on my bed, toy in vag, totally trying to fuck myself into oblivion– except there was one problem: I was fucking myself, but into frustration. The toy didn’t feel good, I wasn’t aroused, nothing was going right. What the fuck was wrong? I felt the excitement I had about getting my dildos in the mail start to dissipate. It wasn’t feeling good, and I didn’t know what I was doing wrong. My favorite porn was on, and the moans were nice and loud and (to my knowledge) real, and I was doing other things that turned me on. Finally, I gave up and threw my dildo back into…