• Recently Enjoyed Things

    Recently Enjoyed Things

    I decided a while ago that I wanted to be a sex toy review blogger, along with a sexual health blogger. However as of late I’ve found myself unfulfilled with posting content strictly relating to those things, especially when I like to talk often on here about mental health, so a few days ago I thought about doing a bi-weekly, or maybe even monthly series of “recently enjoyed things”, it might be accompanied by pictures, it might not, but I’m very glad I’ve decided to start it. I think it’s really important for one to focus on the good in life, especially when they feel like there’s a lot of…

  • Reviews

    The Wench Reviews: PalmPower Wand

      When I first saw the PalmPower I thought to myself “This small wand won’t do a damn thing for me. Smh.” But boy, let me tell you something… I was wrong. Rarely am I wrong when eyeballing a toy. Usually, I’m spot on- I know my cunt, y’all. I know it well. But this time? I was schooled by a toy. This compact little fucker is better than my Magic Wand if we’re comparing things. It’s smaller, a lot less noisy, has more than two settings, and knows how to please me. With it’s deep, rumbling, and intense vibrations I find myself reaching for it over any toy in…

  • Uncategorized

    Sex Down South Sponsor Call!

    Sex Down South is hosted in ATL this year, and goodness gracious does this girl wanna go! My name’s Wendy Phillips and I’m a PoC Sex Blogger. But I don’t stop my blogging only at sex blogging, I also blog about Mental Health Education, and problems in the PoC community. I was inspired to start my blog in early 2018, and I hope to have a long, educational, fun, and feel good journey with it! The good lord knows that I’m not rolling in dough though, so I’m asking for YOUR help! I am calling for sponsors to help me cover the expenses of the trip for Sex Down South! These expenses include room and board, food,…

  • Blog,  Not a Review,  The Wench Talks

    The Wench Talks: What I’ve Been Up To

    “So how have you been?” This is probably one of the most asked questions since I’ve come back to the community, and I’ve decided to just write a nice post about what I did, what I’ve been up to, and how I’m doing since y’all last saw me. Back in March of last year, it was decided that I really needed to step back from the community. A lot of things were going on in my personal life- not having medicine, being in and out of the psychiatric hospital, etc, and a lot of what was going on online was exacerbating just how shitty things were going. So I stepped…

  • Reviews

    The Wench Reviews: Womanizer Starlet

        There are a few things about the Womanizer Starlet that can be said. 1) Its name is totally terrible. 2) Its logo looks a bit like the Walgreens logo. 3) I’m unconditionally, and irrevocably, head over heels in love with it. When I was first offered toys to review from Betty’s Toy Box, I was excited. I was a new blogger, it was my first time working with a company to review a toy, and the world felt like my oyster or something. Picking out a toy was difficult until my eyes zeroed in on “Womanizer: Starlet” and at the time the blogosphere had been abuzz with hype…

  • Not a Review,  Sexual Health

    The Wench Talks: The Importance of Open Dialogue

    So I sat there on my bed, toy in vag, totally trying to fuck myself into oblivion– except there was one problem: I was fucking myself, but into frustration. The toy didn’t feel good, I wasn’t aroused, nothing was going right. What the fuck was wrong? I felt the excitement I had about getting my dildos in the mail start to dissipate. It wasn’t feeling good, and I didn’t know what I was doing wrong. My favorite porn was on, and the moans were nice and loud and (to my knowledge) real, and I was doing other things that turned me on. Finally, I gave up and threw my dildo back into…